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Farrah Fawcett – A Final Message


Farrah Fawcett is near the end of her life after suffering from anal cancer that has metastasized throughout her body. Well known as one of the most popular pin up girls of all time, Farrah has decided to share in her battle with cancer and the paparazzi. Her rights have been violated, her medical records breached, and rumours of her being near death have been publicized since December of 2006.  She prerecorded an interview with Today show that is currently getting ready to air. 

Having suffered from cancer myself, I cannot imagine the hell that Farrah has gone through with the paparazzi…..  Believe me, when you are going through chemo the last thing that you feel is “glamourous.”  Even the remark that Ryan made saying “yes, she has lost her beautiful locks of hair”, is telling in itself.  What in the hell do people expect?  I could just imagine the paparazzi trying to get close enough for a picuture, or even more realistic, paying for a pic of Farrah as she lay dying.  I’m sure that would sell in the tabloids.

Ryan O’Neal was quoted as saying “In the last two years, I loved her more than I’ve ever loved her – ever,” he said. “She’s so much more of a woman and powerful, courageous, fearless, all those adjectives. I look at her with awe.”

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , | 9 Comments

New “Buy Black Experiment” May Become a Nationwide Movement

Buying BlackI usually do not write about subjects that may have the possibility of becoming racially charged, but this time, I must make an exception.  As reported on Fox this morning, a Chicago family has begun what they are quoted as calling an “Empowerment Experiment”.  Maggie and John Anderson of Chicago vowed four months ago that for one year, they would try to patronize only black-owned businesses.  This “Empowerment Experiment” is why John had to suffer for hours with a stomach ache, Maggie no longer gets that brand-name shampoo to wash her hair  and a grocery trip is a 14-mile excursion. 

Mrs. Anderson was quoted as saying  “It’s like, my people have been here 400 years and we don’t even have a Walgreens to show for it.”  The Andersons are following up with 4,000 people who signed up to join the experiment on their Web site to gauge their commitment and set up online accounts to track their spending. Hundreds have also joined the experiment’s Facebook page. 

Dallas Smith, who owns a commercial real estate firm in Atlanta, said “We’ve still got that ‘the white man’s water is colder’ mentality,” he said. “We can’t take us for granted. When we go to our establishments, it’s almost like we’re doing a favor. That ought to be a given for us.”

Maggie Anderson says ” The response has been so huge. “We think so much can come out of this. We’re in movement-making mode now.”

I have to agree with Maggie Anderson.  They are in a making mode now.  Making the United States even more racial and making it  a worse place to live.  I’m sorry, but I thought the whole point of being in American was to help each other and do away with things that make us different.  This couple and the people who follow their example seem to revel in the things that make them stand apart.  They make the argument that their is not enough black businesses.  I took this as meaning that there are not an equal amount of black businesses as there is white owned businesses.  According to what I have read, however, blacks only make up 12 to 13% of the current U.S. population, so how could is it possable to have equal representation? 

I personally frequent my favorite market that is owned by a very nice, professional Iranian gentleman who has gotten to be friends with my whole family.  His patrons are an equal mix of whites and blacks.  We go to our favorite Chinese restaurant probably once a week.  Their customers seem to be mostly white and Hispanic.  I get my nails done at a shop that is owned by Vietnamese.  Most of her customers are an equally white and black.   And I purchase beauty supplies from Sally’s which is black owned and most of her customers an equal mix of black and white.

That being said, what if white people were to start an “Empowerment Experiment” and only made  purchases from white owned business?  Wouldn’t that just hurt the people that are of  Asian, Hispanic and Middle Eastern decent that came to America to work hard and make a better life for themselves and their families?  Wouldn’t this also hurt the black community?  After reading this article and noticing all of the references to “the white mans water” and “white stores” I do not believe that the intentions of this “experiment”  is about black empowerment at all.  I think its more about hurting businesses that are not black. 

Read it for yourself:,2933,519965,00.html

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Political | , , , | Leave a comment

Kate Gosselin’s pay back!

JON%20KATE%20PLUS%20EIGHT-thumb-250x370-20114For  months we have been exposed to alligations concerning  Jon Gosselin’s alleged infidelity with 23 year old Deanna Hummel. Knowing Kate Gosselin, mother of 8 and star of the hit reality TV show, Jon & Kate plus 8, as well as we all do, is it just me or has everyone been wondering why we haven’t seen a “very stylish” but deeply implanted high heel shoe sticking from his ass? 

I’ve heard rumors, for quite some time, that Kate might also be getting her jollies on with the families bodyguard Steve Neild .  Makes you wonder just who’s body he is guarding!  This would definitely explain why she hasn’t seemed very upset over Jon’s alleged infidelity.  People have continued to speculate that her lack of emotion is due to greed and therefore her focus is on her book promotions and the families reality show.  But I wonder??? 

In a story published Tuesday on People magazine’s Web site, Kate said that she’s the target of tabloid lies romantically linking her with a bodyguard who frequently travels with the family. She spoke out following recent accounts that portrayed her as the victim of her husband’s infidelity. 

She also said, “The next story coming out from the animals that stalk us is about our security person and his family,” she said, referring to bodyguard Steve Neild. “Already the allegations they’re making about me are disgusting, unthinkable, unfathomable, and I am horrified.”

And thats not all!  The best part is she also said that she  regrets that their friends had been drawn into the media frenzy, and said she was “totally panicking” that the scandalous publicity may drive them away.  “I keep calling them, begging, `Seriously, I’m so sorry. Don’t run away from us.’ They keep saying, `We’re fine, we’re fine.’ But they have paparazzi in front of their house. It’s so upsetting.”

This comes from a person who refuses to have anything to do with her family.  That has driven off her brother,  sister-in-law and her best friend Beth and who’s kids refer to their paternal grandmother as “my fathers mother”.  Sorry but I find her new found concern a little hard to swallow!

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Jon & Kate Plus 8 | , , , , | 4 Comments

Penis Size?

I found this article on penis size.  I found it VERY stimulating, interesting.  I’m going to get some VigRX Plus and give it to my husband!   I wonder if you can overdose from it?  I found this article poorly written but I think you will get the point!AYVPQJ2CA7GVQBFCA429QKRCANO2RIRCAHE8KPJCAOGO8SNCA5PUIMMCAKZS4NLCATYCC8WCA0HGKQGCA6X97T9CAYSOSKSCAATZQL0CA5P4XM5CARQRFX3CADIPQBVCA1487WXCA7LKPIFCAOZML3U

Some admit it some not but we all think about the penis size! Pushed by the media, mainly in TV shows and TV series or genuine just interest, the penis size is a concern and a standard today’s women consider. We actually see a trend in women leaving their man because of a small penis!

Now, as a man you would be willing to do something, anything to be in great shape but wouldn’t you want to know exactly if the penis size does really matter to women? From a woman’s point of view the penis size issue has two sides: either women saying the bigger the better or the size doesn’t matter! Which ones are right?

Women that like large penises want to feel dominant. The others only see man over concerned with an issue that is not real since the most sensitive sexual area for a woman is around the vagina’s opening so in fact a longer penis wouldn’t make a difference. Now letting alone there two hypothesis, fact is a longer penis is more able to have an erection than a “shorty”! No erection during the sexual act means only dissatisfaction and complications in a relationship. Also, a longer penis usually means larger girth and therefore more friction and pleasure during sex for both the man and the woman!.

The men also looks as the penis size issue with interest: a longer and bigger penis, a penis size above average means more confidence, superiority over men with smaller penises, a sign of masculinity. All men want a bigger penis! Even the well endowed ones wish for a bigger one!!!  Based on these facts, there are an increased number of people willing to give the effort to enlarge their penis if they have the right product. 

A few companies focused on providing penis enlargement solutions. Something effective, something to restore male’s confidence, something to replace insecurity and lack of confidence with relief and enjoyment. Some men choose the extreme way of surgery with all its risks,  just to be a better man. Some are not so convinced surgery is a safe procedure (not to mention the budget one would need for phalloplasty!) and use alternative penis enlargement methods. Some use penis pumps, not so effective and without the benefit of a permanent penis growth. Others use penis pills. Most women recommend herbal pills, because of the safe and natural ingredients. Products like VigRX Plus™ contain natural ingredients from all over the world helping the blood flow, relieving stress, stimulating the nervous system and helping with erectile dysfunctions. A bigger penis is better, but getting there the safe way is even more important. Products like VigRX Plus™ have been scientifically proven to produce results in as little as two weeks!! These supplements can be taken without the doctor’s prescription any time a man has erectile problems or premature ejaculation. Even doctors use these products for themselves!  To please your woman is important but maybe more important is what works for you, that can produce the results you will both be happy with. To take care of you body is ultimately your priority and that you should always consider.

I don’t know about you, but sign me up!

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Sexy | , , , , | Leave a comment

9 year old on Subway alone!

Have any of you seen the news about this woman, Lenore Skenasy, who allowed her 9 year old son to ride the subway in NewYork by himself? She left him in the Subway in midtown Manhattan with a Metrocard for the subway, a subway map, $20, and told him she’d see him when he got back home. She is now being called, by some, as the Worst Mother in America!

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Bad Parenting | , , , , | Leave a comment

Octopussy vs Katezilla


I’ve been reading what the general public has been saying about these two women, and I am still unsure that these two Baby Makers are really that different. Both have stated that they “just wanted one more baby”, but each put themselves into the position where multiples were the likely outcome. So why, just why, does the public view Kate Gosslein as a devoted mother and Nadya Suleman as a wacko nut job?

Is it because Kate has a husband? Or maybe because she previously only had two children while Nadya had six? I don’t know….but let’s take a closer look. As far as I can see:

Both already had children but yearned for “just one more”,
Both were in a dire financial mess when they conceived their children
Both have received government assistance in one shape or the other
Both believe that life begins at conception (whether it’s in a petri dish or in a uterus)
Both refused to abort any of the multiple fetuses, stating it was against their beliefs (Nadya wouldn’t destroy any fertilized eggs)
Both spend time on their appearances, going to spas, shopping for makeup, ……..etc….etc………
Both of these women appear to thrive in the spotlight that fame provides

Here’s just a few of the differences that I can see:
Kate claims to have a strong Christian belief, where Nadya has remained quiet on her religious beliefs
Kate doesn’t have the backing of her family and friends, where Nadya’s family might not approve of her choices, but stands behind their daughter
Nadya appears to spend more time with her children than Kate who is jet setting across the country

So what’s the problem? Why is the general public so against Octopussy while Katezilla has the blessings of many?


UPDATE:  5/24/09 I am finally seeing compairisons between these two hit the web.  It seemed that as long as Kate had her husband by her side, the public was willing to overlook all of the other generalities between her and Octomom!! I just googled Octomom and guess what?  there are no new stories floating around, expect for one that is trying to make headlines about her dropping her kids off at school late!

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Celebrity Gossip | , , , , , , , , | 1 Comment

Workplace Bitches – How Do You Win?


I’m sure most of you at one time or another has worked in an office with a gaggle of women.  Now don’t get me wrong, I am also a female, but lordy be, some women are ridiculous.  What happened to the idea of a “sisterhood”, to sticking together and helping each other reach  goals,  to have  friendshipsI started this blog as a true life drama, a real situation that is occurring as we blog, but decided just to hit upon the topic – Jealousy, more specifically jealousy of a pretty women. 

Why do these women bitches love people like them, insecure, unhappy with themselves and full of self pity?  Put a whole gaggle of them together and the situation can become real DANGEROUS!!  It usually only takes one “leader”, the one who is so self absorbed with her problems, the one who makes a big public deal of everything and everyone in her life, the one who expects every one around her to feel sorry for her, and I almost forgot, to admire her for working while dealing with her severe health problems.

On the opposite spectrum we have the one attractive women, who is secure with who she is, who doesn’t want nor need pity of any kind, and who actually has a severe health problem that she will probably die from.  The difference being nobody knows this…..would letting this fact out change the way the gaggle views this women?  Would she then be welcomed into their gaggle…..would the jealousy stop if this gaggle realized that she was indeed no different then them on the inside?  It just happens to be that her outsides are pretty in today’s standards.  Why do other women put her on this unattainable pedestal?  Why do other women automatically think that she thinks she is better than everyone else? 

Jealousy, has caused pretty women to lose their jobs in the past, and I’m afraid a close friend of mine will become the next statistic in the very close future.  Rant over………………….

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Work Related | , , , , | 7 Comments

Adam Lambert – Appealing to 50 Yr Old Hetro Women?


adamFor whatever reason I decided to watch American Idol this year, and what a surprise it has been.  A surprise with the name of Adam Lambert.  I find this talented young man something else!!  Who cares about his sexual orientation or his age….this guy is hot!!!  I haven’t had a musician touch me like this since I was a teenager.  (Touch me in my heart, no where else!)  Of course he is young enough to be my son, matter of fact my kids are older than Adam.  I feel like such a pervert!!

Music should be able to touch your insides, should make you smile inside and out, to make you forget about your trials and tribulations, and Adam does!  In all seriousness, it is so refreshing to see someone like Adam hit the stage.  His interpretations of the classics have been suburb.  He’s been able to take the classics of yesteryear and remake them into a completely different song to fit his amazing voice.  I can only hope that he can write music as he sings.  You either love him or hate him…….And I love him!!!!!!!!

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , | Leave a comment

Octomom gets a Tatoo!

This morning as I was pouring over all of today’s gossip I stumbled over the Octomom getting a tattoo! Its not her first one either. This makes number 8! This one is of an Angel wrapped in a flowing banner and will contain the names of all of her children. When will the insanity end? I don’t have any tattoos but from what I understand getting one can be a little painful. Not to mention having the names of 14 kids injected into your skin!

I see this as another slap in the face for the taxpayers who are having to bear the burden of paying her bills due to her irresponsible behavior. Tattoos are fairly expensive, or so I am told. So why isn’t she using the money that she is paying for the tatoo to help pay her hospital bill? Since giving birth she has taken a lavish vacation and bought a new home. I once took up for her. I thought that she saw her unfertalized eggs as her children since life is supposed to begin at conception. Not any more! I do believe that she had this whole feasco planned from the beginning.

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , , , | 2 Comments

Carrie Prejean keeps her crown!

cjWe live in very uncertain times. People are losing their jobs and the country is split over what is considered torture and what is not. Today, however, there is a little hope. Carrie Prejean, who was asked her opinion on same sex marriage and gave it will get to keep her crown. I know, I know, you are all thinking how can I possibly compare a beauty pageant with torture or people losing their jobs? Well, it all boils down to our right to have freedom of speech. To me the most upsetting aspect of the Carrie Prejean roller-coaster ride is not what she said but rather that she was asked a question, she complied and gave her answer and then was attacked both publicly and verbally by one of the people that were judging the event. To me this was just wrong! The judges should be held to a higher standard. Because the one that attacked Ms. Prejean was gay, the matter was let go. I honestly feel that if it had been any of the other judges that would have attacked her, they would have been seen as unprofessional and chastised for their comments. Carrie Prejean, in the mean time, had to withstand all of the negative publicity while the judge, who’s name, I will not mention but we all know who he is, just became famous. People all over the country who had never heard of him, now all know now who he is. I will not contribute to his fame. But the scandal doesn’t even stop there!

Radar Online said that a short time later, racy photos surfaced. Prejean said the pictures were leaked to humiliate her because of her anti-gay marriage views, calling it a “vicious and mean-spirited” attacks. (Even more photos hit the web before Trump’s press conference Tuesday morning.)

Now, I personally am for same sex marriages. Not because I feel it is right or wrong. I don’t feel that it will impact anyone in a negative manner. People who want to live together are are going to live together so what difference does a piece of paper make? I think that Carrie Prejean probably felt the same way I do when she made her comment I think that the judge, who will remain un-named, tactics may have backfired on him. Now, Prejean has announced that she’ll be launching a campaign opposing gay marriage with the National Organization for Marriage. With her new fame and power the people that oppose same sex marriage has just gotten a powerful Allie.

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Uncategorized | , , , , | 3 Comments

Students refusing to say Pledge!

mc1Sorry, I am a blog whore, I admit it! Today when I was screwing around scouring the net for interesting and educational information, I came across this email. I found it both interesting and disturbing. I have two young children and this has me concerned. Read it and see what you think?

Good Evening Sir,

After reading your many columns, I believe you may be interested in knowing the events of my morning as a substitute teacher in Henrico County, Virginia. It was during my time in a paramilitary fire academy that I grew to become passionate about my country’s flag and what it represents. This is why I’m inflamed at the apathy of the students I “taught” today.
In Henrico county, there are predominately white schools and, of course, there are predominately black schools (for which we receive extra compensation to substitute). Before the class began this morning (at a predominately black school), the morning announcements blared over the loud speaker requesting students to participate in reciting the Pledge of Allegiance. With a class of 25 students, I was the only one saying the Pledge. The rest of the students walked around the classroom, sat down, talked, and/or paid absolutely no attention.

After the conclusion of the announcements, I told the class that they had been utterly disrespectful, not to me, not to the school, but to their own country which has given them the freedom to be educated today. I told them politely to stand up and to try again. Only 2 students stood up until I firmly asked the rest of them to at least stand up. The attitudes I received were nasty, especially by two 14 year-old girls who shook their behinds in their seat and informed me they were not going to comply. Only 8 out of 25 students actually recited the Pledge of Allegiance again. The rest “didn’t feel like” doing it.
In my opinion, this travesty should be screamed to the masses. Absolutely unforgivable. Before the class even began, all of the students were brought breakfast which consisted of 2 pop tarts, a bowl of frosted flakes, a carton of chocolate milk, and an apple juice box. If they did not want this, their other option was a chicken biscuit. FREE TO THEM. This was delivered to them in their classroom; they did not even have to walk to the cafeteria! At the beginning of the school year, all middle school and high school students in the county are issued a personal laptop computer to use at home and school. FREE TO THEM. This is not to mention simply the cost of their public education – teacher’s pay, supplies, building, etc. ONCE AGAIN, FREE TO THEM.

Our AMAZING country is not letting these students go hungry, neither depriving them of new technology nor forbidding them to attend school like in some countries. Instead, it is GIVING them a FREE breakfast, a FREE laptop, a FREE education, and FREE after school activities (sports, arts, etc.). Of course, FREE meaning that the rest of the county citizens and I paid for it. Even after all of this, only 8 out of 25 students felt it necessary to show appreciation, respect, and reverence to the country who has not only given them all of this, but more importantly has had its own citizens die to give them the right of “liberty and justice for all.”
If this ticks you off, what the assistant teacher in the room said next will drive you nuts. She informed me that, of course, we cannot make any student state the Pledge, but that I should not even strongly request that students recite the pledge because it may offend the Muslim students who, for religious reasons, do not believe in saying it. I am speechless. There is nothing more to say than that there is something seriously screwed up with this situation and this apparent air of entitlement. These students are completely ungrateful and disrespectful to the country which has given them every opportunity to succeed. By the way, I have yet to witness the students at the predominately white schools behave this way during the 12 seconds it takes to recite the Pledge of Allegiance. Disgusting.
I realize this email is probably adding fuel to the fire, but enough is enough. If you have any ideas as to how I can influence change regarding students respectfully saying the Pledge, please let me know.

Am I over reacting? What do you think?

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Bad Parenting | , , , , , , | Leave a comment


What the hell is going on with Obama? I personally like the man. I think that he is very handsome. He is personable, charismatic and knows how to woo an audience. I am interested in seeing what all he is going to be able to do.

I did watch the Elite dinner tonight. I also saw him when he made the comment about the Special Olympic Children when he was on the Tonight Show. I think he has a great personality and a wonderful sense of humor. However, a great sense of humor does not a President make. If he were any other President in the history of the United States of America, the comments that he has made would not be taken so lightly. So why do Americans take what he says so lightheartedly when they would have chewed up and spit out any other man?

I can’t wait to read your comments!ad your comments……

May 13, 2009 Posted by | Political | , , | Leave a comment